Why we think in boxes and what we can do about it
One of the big issues in the current debate on inclusion and the polarized atmosphere in which it is taking place is that we lose sight of the fact that every individual person is unique and should be treated that way. If we could just talk person to person, with genuine interest in each other's backgrounds, feelings, fears and dreams, I truly believe there will be space for everyone to be heard, feel understood and have the opportunity to succeed (or fail) on their own merits. Based on my knowledge of how the brain works, here's my two cents about thinking in boxes and what we can do about it. Nature/instinct: Whenever you meet someone, you immediately classify them as safe or unsafe. This instinctive reaction has been invaluable to…